Even if we think we don t compare partners or past relationships our mind and ego are constantly on the lookout for better or worse.
New relationship energy poly.
In the grips of nre life is seen through proverbial rose colored glasses.
In a very recent episode of new sexual energy in my relationship after the initial sharing about the experience my little.
It may be viewed as new love or maybe new lust but it s definitely a factor to reckon with.
But this can be a problem when it comes to new relationships.
It s well known that attraction and falling in love or lust with someone new is a biochemical process.
A comparison is one of the fastest paths to disaster in poly relationships.
Usually little to no conflict and the sex is amazing.
That feeling when you meet someone new and everything seems to fall perfectly in place even though it looks like a mess from the outside.
One of the terms english speaking poly folks have coined is new relationship energy which they usually abbreviate to nre.
Juggling these feelings leads to struggles specific to polyamory.
Most people have felt it but many may not have heard of it yet.
Poly dating and new relationship energy.
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This is both a new to poly thing and an nre thing.
New relationship energy it s a wonderful life.
Stis in the poly tribe.
This chemical pathway doesn t play out exactly the same for everyone since every brain body and relationship is different but there are some recognizable.
In polyamory the excitement of a new partner is often coupled with concurrent relationships in a different phase.
Nre new relationship energy is a term used to describe the intense giddiness one feels when falling in love in poly circles it s a term used to describe a particular state of mind that may be influencing peculiar or erratic decision making.
New relationship energy or nre refers to a state of mind experienced at the beginning of sexual and romantic relationships typically involving heightened emotional and sexual feelings and excitement.
Nre begins with the earliest attractions may grow into full force when mutuality is established and can fade over months or years.
When i joined an early internet polyamory discussion group in 1993 the triples list i used the.
And my sex playlist filed under.
New relationship energy nre is a serious thing.
Welcome to the chemical rollercoaster that is new relationship energy nre.
In the mid 80 s while grappling with this phenomenon within my own polyamorous relationships i coined for it the phrase new relationship energy or nre.
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The beginning of a new relationship is a great time.
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